Fluctuations

We are the only one who can solve the puzles of ourselves. It is only us who can help ourself in any manner. It is only us who can demystify the emotions present in us and work ahead.

It is only the matter of view. Somebody says it as the joy of solitude, somebody says it is grief of aloneness. Somebody says it peace , somebody says it silence.

At the end, the scale against which an individual measure his things matters. A grief can be a reason of great depression for someone as well as it can be a usuall thing to another one.

Whether to be happy when little thing happen or to be sad if nothing happens, this thing create a giant roller coaster wave in the nature of a human being.

If a person gets high in joy, he will equivalently get lower down in sadness and vice -n - versa. But that fluctuation causes a sort of pain inside.

We should get be indifferent about these fluctuations. Just shrunk up the measuring unit of our scales of reactions. If we want to go ahead.

"Gham aur khushi me fark na mehsoos ho jahan,

          Mein khud ko uss mukaam pe lata chala gaya,

                Mein zindagi ka sath nibhata chala gaya."

                                       - Sahir Ludhiyanwi

It doesn't mean to be indifferent of little joys or to get insensible of surrounding. It just not to make agony of every pain and not to get madly excited over joy.

Lesser the fluctuation, lesser will be the disturbance, more steadily the vehicle of life will work.